Getting my IUD put in in America was such a huge contrast with my numerous frustrating attempts to get some sort of semi-permanent birth control in Nigeria.
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In the almost two years I have lived here however, it has remained cold and empty, and fewer than three people have come through the door in all that time.
How many times have we heard of, and seen first hand, Nigerian women who thought they were in steady, serious relationships, only for their boyfriend to send them invitation cards to his wedding (to someone else) out of the blue?
Besides struggling with constant suicidal thoughts, I’ve suffered from utter apathy for little over a year now. Nothing excites me anymore, nothing makes me happy anymore. Just when I thought I was at my darkest moment, I met someone on Twitter and fell in love.
So many people get all bent out of shape about the number of people we have sex with, but does anyone care about the why?
I want sex …because sex is the most I can hope for …and because for an hour …or maybe two …I forget that I..
…He wants me to forgive him ….He wants us to be friends …I didn’t know what to say …I’m afraid he’ll call again …and..
HL and I had another fight. But we made up. I think… I’m beginning to understand what I want. I want affection. And with..
Dear Daddy, I fucking hate you, you piece of shit. Today I stopped being unsure. As long as you live if I can I will destroy you, and when you die, I promise I’ll visit.
I probably should not be blogging tonight of all nights but I feel like I have to get it out of my system. In..
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Okay I’m officially a fan of yours. The NdebeScript is awesome and now this story just sits right with me. I love how you chronicled […]
Hi Varis, how did it go at Decagon? I'm about to do my in-person assessment this Saturday. Love to hear your honest thoughts on it.
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I remember seeing your tweet about this. I really enjoyed reading this story. I know it is a few months late but still, congratulations.
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