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    January 15, 2013

    If I was happy the week before last, last week ranks up there as one of the shittiest weeks of my life.

    Some people have no conscience, no morals, and no shame.

    How can you just destroy someone’s life and not think twice about it? And just say it’s not your problem?

    I am tired.

    I am so fucking tired tired and I am done putting up with this bullshit. Forever.

    I am longer going to be nice.

    I’ve been a nice person for so long and look what happened.

    Obviously, it seems like only nice people finish last in Nigeria.

    You want a bitch abi?

    Better get ready.

    Tags: friendship, love, pain / Categories: Blog

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    11 Responses to "Examine What You Tolerate"

    1. Replytrae_z Posted on January 15, 2013 at 2:37 am | Permalink

      Tantrums ain’t cool. If you can’t give us the full gist so we can better understand and learn then you’d do well to hold your peace.

      • ReplyAnonymous Posted on January 15, 2013 at 7:22 am | Permalink

        it is her blog so get the fuck outta here :)

      • ReplyWorried. Posted on April 30, 2013 at 4:51 pm | Permalink

        Hello Trae-z! I’m a doctor. May I examine your issues?

    2. ReplyAgrodolce Posted on January 15, 2013 at 2:01 pm | Permalink

      Sweety, take deep breaths, and just let it run its course, everyone has these days that just totally send one down an angry spiral. Just don’t let it mess with you, your kind nature and how you spend the rest of your day. :)

      and dear Mr. Trae_z, one of the points of a blog, just like you stated clearly on yours, is to put down your thoughts and opinions and this is hers so it would be polite to respect it even if you don’t agree.

    3. Replylabelwhorre.com Posted on January 15, 2013 at 10:15 pm | Permalink

      sweety…..please stop being nice..nigerians aint worth a single good act..i just told my mom the exact same thing…TODAY!!!!!!!!!!! trust me…if there was an award for being nice, understanding, caring, giving, selfless..i would have four stacks up crib..but i got tired..really tired of getting repaid by ungrateful elements..in this world nice people don’t finish first..i learnt that the hard way..do you and feel free to curse out anybody who hurts you and abuses your love and kind heart. #yolo

    4. ReplySama Posted on January 16, 2013 at 2:59 pm | Permalink

      I hope everything gets better. NEVER stop being nice, never stop being you. People may be extremely callous, vindictive and mostly a pain to deal with. But by being the best you, you also get to meet amazing people and longtime friends. Just work on being authoritative, know how and when to say No. So you are not giving yourself a headache over nothing.

      Stay happy :)

    5. ReplyLohi Posted on January 17, 2013 at 3:27 pm | Permalink

      Hope things are looking up! Happy new year!

    6. ReplyAnonymous Posted on January 21, 2013 at 5:43 pm | Permalink

      Being “nice” is overrated. I’ve been “nice” all my life and all it’s done is gotten me heartbroken, used, ridiculed and alone. Be a good person but put yourself and your needs first.

    7. Replyabokishop Posted on January 23, 2013 at 2:18 am | Permalink

      Being nice is not the issue…its the people ur nice too that makes being nice look like a weakness….but i swear to u its anything but that…its only a strong person that look at all these ungreatful buggers sharing this planet with us and say u can
      have this no strings attached…go kill urself if u like…cos if u turn into a “bitch” they will win cos they have finally initiated u to their loser sad hopeless excuse of a life that they live…ur kindness seperates u from all the billions of a#swholes alive…so take a deep breath after venting and please remain our ever most creative sugabelly…

    8. Replyabokishop Posted on January 23, 2013 at 2:21 am | Permalink

      And I will prove everybody that thinks nice people finish last wrong by….i dont know what i will do but just watchout for it…:)

    9. ReplyAnonymous Posted on January 31, 2013 at 4:11 am | Permalink

      Wow… anon… wow.

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